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Dealing with Negative Thoughts

Posted on Nov 1st, 2008 by 1Vector3 : "Relentless Wisdom" 1Vector3
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Do we really need to control and avoid our negative thoughts, out of fear they will manifest? If we believe our thoughts create our reality, then we get into becoming "thought police" on our minds. This is not comfortable. In fact I believe it's counterproductive. I have a heretical view of "Our thoughts create our reality."

I've been wanting to blog about this for a long time, and just wrote a post I shall use for this blog. It'll be a quick pass through the subject. I could have more to say in the comments.

First, the usual preamble for my blogs

DEALING WITH NEGATIVE THOUGHTS

 

Rev.  O.M. Bastet, Ph.D.

Head Minister

 

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We are advised to choose our thoughts, to be sure they are what we want to manifest. We are sometimes advised not to put energy into thinking about our fears, or they will manifest.

Some of my spiritual teachers pointed out that this kind of belief puts us in an impossible bind: We truly cannot control what comes into our minds. If we become "thought police" and try to control or even worse, RESIST some of our thoughts, we are not loving and accepting ourselves unconditionally, and also we end up manifesting what we DON'T want!!

These teachers pointed out that it is NOT our thoughts that manifest. It is the thoughts we believe in, and treat as REALITY, which manifest. The thoughts we give energy and attention to -- and resistance is energy and attention !!!! Treating a fear as valid or creatively powerful is energy and attention.

So in the "advice" above I say we cannot "choose our thoughts" but the second sentence offers a glimpse of the way out of manifesting our fears: do not give them energy, attention, reality, belief. They are "JUST THOUGHTS."

Thus we just witness them, accept that they are "what is" at this particular moment in the flow of what is, not resist them or condemn them or fear their consequences. Not regard them as "about reality" in any way.

This Unconditional Love extended to our thoughts sets up what might be called a filter or protective barrier that actually prevents negative thoughts from manifesting (and the negative emotions that have at root negative thoughts.)

Of course, meanwhile, we can also work on transmuting into wisdom, the illusions that create the negative thoughts. Work via direct energy healing of the energy patterns, work via various psychological or psycho-spiritual methods. Ask our highest Teachers, Healers, and Guides for help in fulfilling the purpose and harvesting the highest wisdom from these illusions, and the illusions leave because their purpose has been fulfilled.

I have been experiencing this a lot lately, as ancient fears are resurfacing, triggered by current events, and I realize the whole experience now is not about the practicalities at all, but my Spirit or Higher Self or whatever you want to call it, has simply decided it's time to fulfill the purpose of those illusions and their negative thoughts and emotions, and thus they are in fact being healed, without a whole lot of conscious ego effort on my part.  Except the desire to cooperate with the healing !!

Utlimately of course, we cannot choose just one side of a polarity of negative and positive. We just evolve to dwell in a place that accepts both, does not resist either, but has an infinite eternal perspective on it all. Sometimes that's called Enlightenment or God-realization.

Anyway, pulling the "reality" out of our negative thoughts to pull out their creative power, is a "trick" one can use.....

Here's an even more powerful trick that gets us out of the polarity and also out of fear not only of our negative thoughts but also fear of our desires, which is the other trap we can fall into, resisting our desires as just "ego." [I'll blog about that sometime.]

This trick is, focus all your attention on the "truth," accept as true, that everything which manifests in your experience is what is chosen by your Higher Self, or Spirit, or you might even say God, or whatever your word for that is. This is, in my view, what has always been the truth all along, and your ego and mind and fears are also choices and chosen experiences from that higher level of your Being. But shifting your identity -- the creator and chooser of your human experiences -- to be above, larger, vaster, than your human self, is part of spiritual evolution, and can really help you relax about both your fears and your desires !!

Hope some of this is understandable and helpful to you !
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Optimism Isn't Easy

Posted on Nov 13th, 2008 by 1Vector3 : "Relentless Wisdom" 1Vector3
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Optimism Isn't Easy


So it's easy to see there's currently a wave of euphoria, optimism, hope, benevolence, enthusiasm in the world. The faces we saw in Chicago the night of November 4th, those were not just "Our team won." Those were new faces of optimism and hope, and a personal committment to Yes WE can! Those folks who are older might say "Been there, seen that. How long will it last?"


Here's the deeper question: Why doesn't it seem to last?


One psychobiological researcher  (Lionel Tiger, Optimism: The Biology of Hope) claims humans by nature are naturally more optimistic than pessimistic; they tend to underestimate dangers and overestimate potential success. (Of course, we all know exceptions to this!)


So why might we expect optimism and enthusiasm to fade? I'd like to ponder this question with you, and examine some things to consider. I plan to raise more questions than I answer.


Is it the hard work that follows? There is an unusual amount of realization, in the current wave, that "the work is just beginning, and the work is not someone else's to do, it's mine." Is it social pressures to go back to the old ways of thinking and acting? Those certainly abound. Is it not being willing to be unpopular, to perhaps lose some friends? Is it resistance to change, fear of the new and unknown?

Is it fear of failure, or fear of success? Are we afraid to try and be disappointed with the results? Is it because we can rarely agree on goals and methods? Is it because we believe it's dangerous to expect good, that our alertness to danger will be clouded by our optimism? Do we feel unsafe to feel safe? Will success set us up for failure because we won't be on our guard enough?


Are we afraid to stay optimismtic because then we won't have any excuses for not reaching our goals? Are we afraid we'll reach our goals and they won't be what we wanted, and then we'll not know what to do next, and have to start all over?


Are we just used to our pessimism? Certainly the current world situation comes crashing in many times a day, with news that's a downer. And our personal lives, lots of downers there. Is optimism unrealistic? What does it mean, the saying that "If at first you don't succeed, failure might be more your style."


It's scary to entertain new possibilities that did not seem possible before. So many "What if's?" in the way....


There's optimism about stuff "out there," and there's the hard reality of assuming some responsibility for that, "in here." There's an uneasy balancing act, always between working as an individual and working as a team or group; we don't always know how to work together, especially with folks different from us. "Yes I can" doesn't easily morph into "Yes We Can." How shall we learn to combine those synergistically? Who can teach us that?


Optimism. What is it? Not the "Pollyanna" denial of anything except one's desired outcomes. Nothing fades faster than optimism that denies what is. Not superficial looking, either. Nothing fades faster than optimism which doesn't look deeply into causes.


Fear comes up. About what?


Does it take more effort to be optimistic than pessimistic?


What are the advantages of optimism? Helps you persevere. Helps you be creative in your efforts. Helps you be willing to expand. What are some other advantages?


What are the disadvantages to optimism? Can blind you to current reality. Can switch to discouragement really fast if expectations exist and are not met. What are some other disadvantages?


What did we have before this wave of optimism? Apathy. Hopelessness. Withdrawal. Pessimism. Cynicism. Skepticism. What's different now?


Optimism ABOUT WHAT?


The Bigger Picture as I see it: The world is more conducive now. Something in the energy of the planet has shifted, and our optimism is not just a response to events; the events are a response to the energy shift. Now the wind is at our backs. Now we can get supported when we're down. Now we can learn.


Who we are has shifted. The context in which we view our lives has shifted. What is REAL to us, has shifted. That's the process and foundation of transformation. That's how new realities are created and co-created.


Why these shifts? How these shifts? That's less important than the fact that I am optimistic about OUR optimism.


Bottom line: The optimism will last to the extent that we are WILLING for things to be different. For ourselves to be different. Don't underestimate how challenging it is to be truly WILLING for things, and us, to be different !!!


It's the willingness that opens new possibilities. Their actualization is a downstream. It flows, when there is true willingness.

What do you think?

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FRIDAY FIVE on Gratitude

Posted on Nov 21st, 2008 by 1Vector3 : "Relentless Wisdom" 1Vector3
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Look carefully at the picture above til you see the smiling face.

I got tagged by Jessica, who said

Hello OM!

I hope you are having a lovely day. I have tagged you in my blog! We're starting up the Friday Five questions (read more here) and I tagged you, inviting you to blog your answers for these questions about gratitude:

1) What are you thankful for today?
2) What do you appreciate about the Earth?
3) Who is the last person you said "thank you" to?
4) When was the last time someone thanked you?
5) What is your favorite way to say thank you?

I look forward to seeing your answers and hope you will take me up on the invitation :)

Hugs,
Jessica

The link goes to this information: (See I am making it easy for you !)

What is the Friday Five? Well, it's a community-wide blogging party featuring five themed questions each week. It is so much fun and gets everyone on Gaia introspecting and sharing. There is so much to learn from these little questions and your answers can be as long or short as you like.

This week is all about gratitude in celebration of Thanksgiving in the United States and appreciation everywhere. Just follow these easy steps:


Step 1) Write your blog on Friday answering the loverly questions below. You can copy and paste them into your blog and just type in answers.


Step 2) Make sure you've added "Friday Five" as a tag for the blog and in the title.


Step 3) If you wish, "Tag" up to five Gaia members and send a little note letting them know they're "it" and thus called upon to blog the Friday Five too. These members can be in your friends list or new people you'd just like to connect with. Then they answer the Friday Five and can tag more Gaians :)


So, come on and play! Won't you? Open up that blog and tell us...

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Here are my thoughts:

I am not clear whether we are committing to doing all 5 questions each Friday until death do us part, or doing just one set of questions. Check into next week's Team Blog, it might clarify. Or choose.            

Maybe not as much fun as the 7 Weird Things about Me tag game, but I'll definitely be up for playing with gratitude !! It's really the key !! (I call it rejoicing, which is more being-at-cause wording, IMO.)

1. Today I am thankful for every minute of breathing, and everything I experienced in each of those moments.

2. I appreciate about the Earth she is so mindblowingly beautiful !!!!!! In so many many ways, from so many viewpoints, from the inner center of a flower to the view from space.

3. The last person I said Thank you to was someone today who sought my ministerial services. I said Thank you for the opportunity to be a resource !!

4. The last time someone thanked me was a few minutes ago, arranging with a girlfriend who is finally divorcing AOL and taking up with gmail tomorrow and I am doing an in-person tutorial for her on that.

5. My favorite way to say Thank you -- hmmm. That's the toughest question of all. I say it in a variety of ways, being a Gemini and easily bored, haha. I think most often I say I AM SO GRATEFUL TO YOU.

I am tagging mascha, andrew, maxie, I P (Individual Person,) and Kris. Please be assured this game is optional, and if any of you don't want to participate, let me know and I will choose someone else !!

Blessings to all,
OM Bastet

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Computer humor

Posted on Nov 23rd, 2008 by 1Vector3 : "Relentless Wisdom" 1Vector3

Because of my recent computer demise and being bestowed with the gift of a newer one, I have been gifted by ~KES and Meenakshi with some great humorous pictures, thought I would share to give you a break from all the heavy stuff I blog !! Enjoy !!!!

Some of them are animated, so don't flip through this too quickly.

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