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Quality of Life

Posted on Dec 3rd, 2008 by 1Vector3 : "Relentless Wisdom" 1Vector3
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The photo is from ~KES, source of so much beauty, thanks, Kathy.
 

Thanks to Sherrilene's being Featured Member of the Gaia Networking Group this month, and her personal mission of increasing people's Quality of Life, I have been inspired to set forth my ideas on the subject. It's about time to say what I really mean when I am talking and thinking about this concept, as I have been for a long time.


This is kinda a first draft of my thoughts on this subject. I will certainly add more based on comments and further contemplations and research.


To the extent you answer No (or to a few, Yes) to any of these questions, then IMO you have a diminished Quality of Life. I grant that many people for example with physical handicaps do experience what they consider an excellent Quality of Life, perhaps even enhanced in some unusual ways, by their limitations. More power to 'em, I say. Quality of Life is not an absolute, nor the same for everyone. Thus, no one can tell anyone else what is required for their Quality of Life !!!!!! Quality of Life is a totally subjective matter.


Also, each of the questions below might be phrased not as "Can you....?" but as "To what extent do you......?"


But here are what I consider to be the basics of Quality of Life, that I wish for everyone in the world.

[But, again, this is my opinion about your Quality of Life, and might not be your own opinion of your own Quality of Life ! It is really important to realize I am not placing judgment on anyone who doesn't have what I am calling a high Quality of Life. For example, I do not judge folks who feel helpless, or do not seek a sense of expansion in life. But if I were to choose, I would wish their life included these elements of what I consider to be a high Quality of Life.]

Then, on top of the basics, each of us has specifics that contribute to our personal individual Quality of Life. There is no upper limit to Quality of Life !!!!!!!


Basic safety in daily life: Can you go about your daily life without a significant risk of being attacked or harmed in any way? Can you go about your daily life without significant health risks? Are your basic needs for air, light, water, nutrition, shelter being met (not necessarily without effort)? Are you able to move about, having all the use of (and be able to express the use of) all your senses and mental and emotional faculties? Do you live free from chronic pain or physical limitations on basic ordinary activities of life?


Basic social needs: Do you have access to social interactions that are satisfying and beneficial for you and are you able to experience yourself as beneficial and contributing to others? Do you have freedom of association, to move into and out of relationships as you choose? Do you have the ability to function in groups, as you choose?


Are you able to make the basic choices of life (via liberty) according to your own desires, such as your travel, your vocation, your place of work, your dwelling-place, what and where you will learn and receive an education, your acquisitions (what you can own), keep and hold and use the results of your physical and mental labor?


Are you able to move away (in whatever sense you choose) from anything you deem harmful to your life, and move toward or go after anything you regard as beneficial to your life? Are you able to engage, to the extent you choose, in activities of life that bring you joy and satisfaction? Can you affect those things you believe have an effect on your quality of life, or the quality of life of others?


Do you have the freedom to learn about yourself and to express yourself in ways that are satisfying (while respecting others' rights)?


Are you free from internal harsh self-judgments, fears, guilts, depression? Are you subject to deceit, fraud, manipulation by others which take advantage of your ignorance or your weaknesses? Do you experience yourself as empowered, or helpless? Do you experience yourself as the "locus of control" of your experiences, or do you feel like a victim of self or others or the world or nature or God or......?


Are you exploring all the potentials and dimensions of yourself and the world, so you have a sense of expansion of life and self and your place in the Grand Scheme of things as you go through life? Do you have a sense of meaning and purpose in your life?

There are clearly some themes here. They might include: Basic necessities of survival, either free or achieved or provided voluntarily by others. Liberty/freedom. A social context appropriate to being human. A degree of psychological freedom from innerly limiting and harm-inflicting stuff. The ability to implement one's will and achieve success as self-defined. A sense of personal empowerment and self-determination and a sense of free will. An expanding understanding of self, life, and world.


I'd like to make clear the social-interpersonal balance in all the above. I do not believe anyone owes anyone else any particular of a Quality of Life. In other words, I do not advocate taxpayer-supported health care, housing, or anything that takes anything from anyone without their explicit consent, even for a good cause. Charity, in my opinion, must, to be moral and ethical, be voluntary. I do not believe anyone is entitled to force anyone to do anything that increases someone else's Quality of Life. I just need this point to be perfectly clear, as it is not the normal usual accepted viewpoint in our society.


But I will work passionately and tirelessly to do everything I am called to do, to increase the Quality of Life of everyone on this planet. I rejoice that I have the freedom and the ability to work in the ways I believe most powerful, most efficacious, for achieving that. My own Quality of Life requires that I be doing that.


by Rev.  O.M. Bastet, Ph.D.

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Sherrilene : Living Ever Closer to Excellence!
about 15 hours later
Sherrilene said

OM, it is wonderful to see you have taken the time and cleared the space to lay out your belief in this area and attempt to help some others with some of the critical questions towards achieving QOL in their space. You inspire me!!

In a very condensed summary, exercising our free will, our gift of choice in how we live, in our achievement of satisfaction in this life, is so important! Feeling disempowered can be a drain on the spirit, on the will to live and to make a contribution while we're at it!

Taking first actions in our own lives, towards our own wellbeing actually can create the momentum needed to make that difference we so often think and talk about, by energising and inspiring us.

Thank you EVER so much for your posting. My heart is swelling with pleasure at this!

Sincere regards to all! Sherrilene

1Vector3 : "Relentless Wisdom"
about 17 hours later
1Vector3 said

Thank you for your comments, Sherrilene. You inspired me, so what goes around comes around !!

I agree that before we can (in my words) pour into others' cups, we need a full cup, or nearly full cup, ourselves. “You can't give what you don't have.” Some would argue that, and some people do sacrifice themselves and burn out or give out, but it seems optimal to me that Quality of Life for others not be valued to the detriment of Quality of Life for self.

OTOH, it's individual. I might regard my overall Quality of Life higher, even going through physical hardships or financial hardships, while working for the upliftment of the Quality of Life for others.
 
Delighted that you were pleased with my contribution.

Blessings, OM

Sherrilene : Living Ever Closer to Excellence!
about 20 hours later
Sherrilene said

Yes OM. And the latter perspective I explored for myself and the outcome was not that great. I tend[ed] to put the world first, every time. Without being well equipped to handle that you can end up depleting yourself. Since I was in the learning stages and didn't always know how to shore myself up especially on the emotional side of things, I contributed to quite a bit of harm to my body especially my nerves…

Learning to continually 'tune in' is important at all points, even if your habit is to react and respond immediately.

I later found a quote on Compassion which made great sense to me following that extensive experience. I posted the link and a perspective on it in my Quality of Life Centre here… http://www.hq-2.com/Compassion.htm

I haven't set up a space for comments on it as yet, so please feel free to comment here if you'd like!

Always a pleasure to share in healthy and harmonious ways.

Peace, Sherrilene

 Meenakshi : Wholeness
1 day later
Meenakshi said

OM,  great blog. I wonder if Maslow's heirarchy is at the back of your mind?It often is, when I think of such a list.

I have to say that sometimes it all comes together in a moment of meeting one in the midst of turmoil. And when I can finally open your page thru IE. Firefox just boots me out, still….;p

Coming back to your list; I agrew with Sherri [I THINK that's what you were saying, Sherri?] that we may strive to bring about quality of life INSPITE of outward conditions that are less than ideal; but as I read your blog, OM, I had to agree that when it's optimal out there, one doesn't have to strive. It's just natural.

Thank you for this thought provoking blog.

1Vector3 : "Relentless Wisdom"
1 day later
1Vector3 said

Very discerning, Meenakshi. Not only Maslow's hierarchy of needs, but the chakras, too, as I interpret them. I was too tired to make sure I covered all of both, but I tried…..

Yes, it's good to say explicitly that there are inner and outer components to Quality of Life, and each facilitates the other or impinges on the other. In fact the distinction between inner and outer is only for convenience. We are One within ourselves, as well as with the All.


Thanks for your wonderful comments !

Mila : adventurer
9 days later
Mila said

I found an interesting link which summarizes various points of view on quality of life indicators here

And I would go with the view that QOL has both the subjective and objective part, The former being each one’s personal take on it and the latter could I guess be summed up by the HPI which I blogged about earlier.

Thank you for your though provoking blog, OM!

Sherrilene : Living Ever Closer to Excellence!
9 days later
Sherrilene said

I know this is OM’s blog, but I wanted to thank you, Mila for all of your supportive, reinforcing information on my pet subject. I am continually kept smiling as I see the Universe provide for me. Much of this is very useful in my building the case for Quality of Life for All in my work. You, truly are a godsend! Thanks for answering the call!

My colleague in the workshop yesterday was so pleased to read about the HPI! The excitement on his face was really moving. People need the hope that their needs are being considered at the macroeconomic level…

All the best to you, dear friends, Sherri

 Meenakshi : Wholeness
13 days later
Meenakshi said

OM, funny you should say that [;)] If you would, please take a moment to see my take on chakras and Maslow

Whenever I encounter you, and I have the supreme joy of doing so in many places, there is such a feeling of joy; and such a feeling of a quietly AMAZING presence. Thank you!

“It’s been a long road…I can reach any star.

1Vector3 : "Relentless Wisdom"
20 days later
1Vector3 said

Thanks for the great links and info, Mila !!!! And how delightful that it was serendipitously useful for you, Sherrilene, thanks for stopping by here. Serendipity is one of those elements of Quality of Life we can’t control, but can only invite, by noticing and appreciating when it happens. That is the key, I think, to it happening more often.

Meenakshi, that has got to be one of the most amazing compliments I have EVER received. I am speechless.

Except to say how much I enjoyed exploring your links too, and your blending of two diverse areas of human thought !!

Grateful for all of you,

OM

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